Before Elliott started preschool, I went on a search for the "perfect" everyday shoes. She's a Florida girl through-and-through and lived in jellies up to the point that she was required by school rules to wear close-toed "tennis shoes". Her narrow feet (SO unlike her momma's) don't agree with most kids tennis shoes on the market, and throw in the whole laces vs. velcro debacle and as it would turn out, picking shoes for your four-year old isn't so cut and dry. Not to mention, this girl has her own preferences. Sheesh.
After much research and time spent reading reviews for all the shoes that hit my criteria (had to be able to be put on independently, option to wear without socks, breathable, good for romping on the playground, would look good with a variety of types of outfits, E likes the look) we settled for Toms.
I may be a bit biased, here. I have a pair of Toms, too, that I adore. Navy blue, in fact. Are you seeing a trend? I think it's cool that for now she's excited to have matching shoes with me. That day will pass, so I'm digging it while it lasts.
Elliott was SOO excited for school to start, but continued to voice one concern.
"Mommy, what if you forget to pick me up?"
It pretty much broke my heart. I couldn't convince the girl that it was impossible for me to forget to pick her up, because when I am away from her, it's like a piece of me is missing and that I'm counting the minutes until it's time to get her again. (Oh, I sound so sappy, but it's SO true!) I decided I wanted to give her a symbol that would remind her that Mommy loves her and would always be back for her. This symbol came in the form of a simple heart that I embroidered into the side of her shoe. When she's sitting with her legs crossed, as kiddos in preschool do, she sees the heart that reminds her that Mom loves her and will be back for her.
Those worries have since left her tender heart, but my reminder remains, just in case they creep back in.
{Project deets: It's literally a freehand heart, backstitched with pink embroidery floss, a needle, and my hand. Cost is like 20 cents, if you have to buy embroidery floss. Lucky for me, I have unimaginable amounts of embroidery floss, thanks to a momma who cross-stitched a lot in decades past.}
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ReplyDeleteThis is so incredibly precious!! I loved the embroidered heart (and of course the adorable little Toms), but when I read the symbolic meaning behind the heart, I died! That is the sweetest thing ever. What a creative idea and what a loving mama. :)